What Is Tantric Massage?
A tantric massage is a loving touch filled with attention and presence, without a basic type and fixed result. Tantra massage is offered from the heart. In a tantric massage, the whole body gets involved and erotic zones can likewise be touched. Naturally, always with regard for (mutual) boundaries. Tantra massage is an energetic massage where sexual energy likewise gets attention. A tantra massage happens on the basis of equality and develops an intimate connection in between massage giver and receiver. Psychologically, physically, at heart level and sometimes even at the depths of body and soul. The function of a tantric massage is to "bring" the receiver in (the instructions of) a natural, overjoyed state of being. The result is often a wonderful physical, mental well-being. Generally, the receiver is really unwinded, wonderfully streaming and ending up well in the heart, and in higher spheres.
Tantric Massage is everything about Caring touch
Tantra massage is provided from the heart. The majority of touch will take location through the hands (or body to body) it is actually love that touches. The recipient is also present, and receives active and likewise feels (ultimately) from the heart.
Filled with attention and existence during tantric massage
A tantra massage is a caring touch loaded with attention and existence. Both the provider and the receiver are totally present. Do not think of the other day or tomorrow. Do not take a look around or being busy with something else, no, your complete attention is on providing or getting the massage. An extremely mindful touch from the heart. Receive likewise very consciously, feeling it in your heart. Tantra massage is not about routine, set patterns are in fact out of the concern. Everything takes place in the minute, completely consciousness, adoringly attuned to each other and the scenario. Dreaming away or going to sleep is likewise not meant (still, when that's what you need, it's okay).
A tantric massage isn't about a predetermined result
A tantric massage will always be different. You never ever know how it will end up. It is not the strategy or the desired sequence of rubbing that is crucial, it has to do with what is appropriate/necessary. What/where does the recipient most need at the moment? What benefits her/him? Love understands exactly what to do, like constantly has a suitable response. Therefore the massage will be precisely that what is needed. Enough is that the provider exists and keeps tuning in to his/her heart, to the frequencies of love. The divine likewise has its own plan, you cannot "do" it.
Tantric massages therefore typically take a very unexpected course. A tantric massage does not always have to be "fine", ending in happiness.
The best ways to get the finest from your tantric massage
Constantly with regard to limits
We understood it for a long time, naturally, however considering that the #MeToo revelations, some things have actually shown up on the planet of tantra massage. Masseurs (you do not hear that much about masseuses) who require their own sexual pleasure/lust on "customers". Obviously, this has little to do with tantric massage. The security of both provider and receiver constantly need to be guaranteed. Caring attunement always comes initially.
Set clear limits beforehand
Every person (except when you are enlightened) has his limitations. This is human and is also necessary (check out the article on securing boundaries. So think in advance (both as provider and receiver) what your limits are. Make sure there is a correct intake, and a good preparation (likewise with your lover/massage partner). Set clear limits ahead of time: about psychological boundaries, and also take care for clarity about physical boundaries. It is a mistaken belief that a tantric massage must constantly be naked, rubbish. With clothes on is likewise totally ok (however hard to work with oil then). It is also a misconception that a tantric massage should be focussed on the sexual parts of the body (breasts/sex), rubbish too. Personally, we have given/received lots of tantric massages just on the head. Likewise, in addition, in fact each cell is sensual, but you will be impressed.
Tantric massage is an energetic massage
Activate and let flow easily
Triggering and freeing the flow of life energy (prana) is the main part of tantra massage. Tantra massage is an energetic massage where sexual energy also gets attention. In a tantric massage, the whole body takes part and erotic zones can also be touched. Of course, always with respect for (shared) borders. When activating life energy, sexual energy plays an essential function once again. In tantra massage we play with the activation of standard/ sexual/ emotional/ passionate/ love/ production/ intuitive energy.
Focused on the natural ecstatic state of being
There is a discussion going on whether tantra massage is part of "real" tantra. Well ... Tantra is an extremely useful, body-oriented movement, a vision of life aimed at growing in love and consciousness. As far as we are concerned, tantra massage is one of them.
Typically resulting in a wonderful physical, psychological well-being
This is likewise the case with a tantra massage. A tantra massage is generally good, sometimes scrumptious. We, therefore, invite you to totally delight in receiving ánd providing a tantric massage.
What Tantric massage isn't?
There are numerous kinds of massage. Naturally, all massages have particular practices and strategies in typical. Yet there is a big difference with e.g.:
* Relaxation massage (focused on relaxation).
* Sports massage (focused on the muscles).
* Sexual massage (intended at pleasure satisfaction).
* (Body) therapy (targeted at recovery).
Relaxation is a fundamental part of tantric massage, but of an entirely various order than relaxation massage Why? Well due to the fact that you are really extremely energetic during/after the massage. You do not fall asleep (unless you are really tired), you are really alert and conscious! A tantra massage is NOT a sensual massage either. If it gets stuck in sexual research or sexual complete satisfaction, we would call it various. Tantra massage is certainly not a treatment! It's a kind of style nowadays to see tantra massage as a therapy, however treatment is a profession apart. Tantra massage definitely has recovery effects, however that is not an end in itself.
The essentials of tantric massage.
For a comprehensive description, see the post on the basics of tantric massage. In summary, the following fundamentals stick out:
Tantra massage tips-- before you start
* Produce a warm, confutable tantric massage area (this can be done quickly on both an infall massage or an outcall massage).
* Provide good conditions (physically, but also psychologically).
* Explain arrangements!
* start by getting naked together.
Tantric massage tips-- during the massage.
* Start, stay, end connected to each other.
* Always keep your attention on the massage.
* Ensure your massage is need free, do not press or force anything.
* Open your very own heart, and open the heart of the receiver.
* Trigger (sexual) energy and disperse it throughout the entire body.
* Do not just utilize your hands. Discover the body to body massage.
* Occasionally ... do absolutely nothing at all! Be 1000% present. Enjoy!
* Use your senses.
* Give feedback (pleasure noises?).
* Build in combination (rest) minutes.
A tantra massage is not a work task, so as a giver you can likewise enjoy yourself, still the core is that you are there for the recipient. Once again, do not try to impose anything (your own goal/body/needs/ sexuality) on the receiver! You might not be waiting for a psychological cry, but a tantric massage has no objective.
Tantra massage tips-- after the massage.
* Take adequate time to process, to let the massage settle.
* Take time to exchange your experiences.
* Understand that a tantric massage can have an impact for days. Be careful/alert.
* Do not immediately go "full-on". Take your time and rest after the massage.
10 crucial tantra massage ideas (insights/rules).
* Don't work to an objective. We get asked all the time, it this a pleased ending massage? Yes it can be, it typically is however there is no pressure for you to carry out, this is about letting that energy circulation.
* Respect borders, set clear boundaries beforehand. Our masseuses are mainly very open minded - they are naturally due to the fact that of the nature of their work however they are masseuses - not escorts.
* Keep the desires of the recipient in mind, naturally. Know that it can turn out in a different way.
* It is always an energetic massage. Start with the heart.
* Activate sexual energy. Energize the entire body. Being aroused is normal and preferable.
* Self-love and awareness (at the recipient) are crucial! A lot can turn up.
* Look out to renewed freezing moments. Prevent limits from being crossed Lodon Tantric once again.
* Step by action ending up being freer ... Growing trust ... fine. Enjoying the renewed balance and connection in between sex and heart.
* Offer feedback (e.g. pleasure sounds) and provide combination moments (simply not doing anything).
* Tantra massage is more than sexual complete satisfaction, still: can Yoni or Lingam massage take place?
Do not discharge, but recharge.
This is how you experience heart orgasm and body orgasm.
By this we imply do not hurry to the weather ending, hold it, be in the moment, let that sexual energy develop and flood your entire body.
Possible results of tantric massage.
Offers peace and relaxation.
Tantric massage is a massage that gets you out of your head. During/after the massage it ends up being peaceful in your head (in some cases entirely empty).
Brings your life energy into movement.
Tantrix massage brings you the experience of splendidly streaming life energy. The tantric touch is healthy, massage has a prospective healing effect. Even though tantra massage is not the very same as healing, this release may heal some blockades.
Makes you soft and loving.
Tantra massage opens your body and your heart. You end up being more loving, you discover what it is like to love yourself.
Is taking pleasure in.
You will feel comfortable in your body. The combination of relaxation and a lot of energy indicates that you can enjoy yourself, your body, your energies.
In short, tantric massage is ...
* A caring touch.
* Filled with attention and existence.
* The entire body participates.
* Energetic massage, consisting of sexual energy.
* Without standard type, without predefined result.
* With regard to (mutual) limits.
* Develops a (heart) connection in between the giver and receiver.
* Concentrated on the natural, happy state of being of the recipient.
* Normally leading to a fantastic physical, psychological well-being (of both).